Culture happens for a reason. It was there because people have learnt, adapted, and then implement it so there is no big differences in whom we meet, what we do, and what kind of a person we expect to see. That is really just the case when it comes to everything.
Everyone had be lonely at some point, but it you think you are meant to be lonely, you are probably wrong. Maybe. I don’t even know myself. It just seems that everything really on matters with 1 thing. “Timing”. Timing to get the right job, timing for a good interview, timing to be successful in business, timing to get a girl that you like, timing to fuck up and no one sees you, timing to eat, it all involves around timing. Your success rate is all dependable totally on timing.
You try and finish your work, but we all know, it’s a integrated culture we have now, you cannot just work alone. You need to depends on your suppliers, friends, partners, clients, whatsoever. Then you find that people’s timing all seem to be the same. When they want you to work, they all want you to work at the same time. Then you find your boy/girlfriend asks you out, and then it’s the time that you need to finish off something, usually urgent. Sod’s law.
Timing, is really the essence of everything. Whether you get the space in the parking lot, whether you get to be the first one to go into apple store, whether you will be involved in an accident, whether you next coffee is going to be good. Hence comes organization, you need to be organized, but sometimes when things conflict, how do you organize? Then comes opportunity cost, then comes alternative, then comes the consideration whether it was worth the while or not.
Someone important to me asked, “What is the meaning of life?”. My close friend replies, “to have as little regret as possible when you are in your death bed and what you do/did or what others do/did to you today will be just memories but what you have not done will be the things you wish you have done so.” I think it’s a great answer.